Bridgehaven Counseling Associates & COVID-19
3/13/2020 Dear Bridgehaven Client: Hello, I hope and pray this finds you well. For those who don’t know me, my name is Tony Higgins, and I serve as both the Executive Director and as a Staff Counselor at Bridgehaven Counseling & Associates (BCA). In light of the ongoing developments related to the COVID-19 virus, I wanted to take a moment to communicate some information that may be helpful to you. First, on behalf of all of us who serve in and through BCA, I want to say “Thank You” for the trust you have placed in us. Please know, every time you and/or your family come in to meet with...
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